Bewildered

Sometimes you may doubt that, you don't know who is right and who is wrong.

I still remember the first ever reality TV show I watched -- Survivor. In the competition, all the people will pretend to be nice to everyone else, building alliances, making promises. But when he got the trust from the others, suddenly he set them up, the one who thought was safe in the tribal council, found that he's been voted off by his most trusted comrade.

Of course I don't have such terrible conspirator around me, but sometimes there are some pretenders among the group of people. You won't know what's real in their mind, some words from their mouth not exactly what they meant. That's why it's depends on your wisdom to judge which is right and which is wrong, and also which one can be trusted.

In the TV shows, the consequence of being setted up, is losing their USD$1 mil, but in real life, although you don't have $1mil to lose, the outcome can also be serious. It depends on how deep you trust the person, and how much they wanna get from you.

Realism is cruel sometimes.