Problem

I knew that she's been under stress for quite long: household, financial, work, life...... she's so optimistic that has been overcome the stresses all these years. Yes, she's simple-minded, yet she's also so simple that she can't really think deep and find out a way to get away from all the conflicts and gossips.

She tries to get my help, but frankly, I really don't know what I can help. She's the one who in the environment, and nobody else can help her if she doesn't find a way out. The best way to avoid gossips is never listen to it, but then she still wants to hear about it and yet easily get affected and emotional on it. Why for if you knew that you'll feel hurt and unhappy and you still wanna listen?

We have been trying to give her so much advices and helps all these years, but still she keeps her own mind and unchanged. Who can help her if she didn't help herself and listen to us.

Now I just leave her alone, and let her calm herself down. Sometimes we just need some time to think alone.